Here we go :) thats the set to the last video.. and somehow I got a lot of messages about the contract.. so should I write a text about it for you all?
Thats the tired me after two days full of interviews and strangers ;) but im so happy about all your messages and especially questions .. <3 honesty you are the greatest community someone could ask for <3 Thank you for being you
Good evening my loves with a little trailer of the new video ๐ฅฐ it goes 10 minutes and I love it ๐๐ of course the music is only here and at the beginning of the video... because I always think that the real sounds add so much to the authenticity โบ๏ธ and somehow the video shows that we need to film more our weekly games / billing again, even if it is also important that we sometimes have it for us in private ๐คญ
I really hope you like it... โค๏ธ the whole video is send out and soon in your inbox ๐
โผ๏ธPLEASE READ โผ๏ธ
My dear ones
Today I have a little "request" for you ๐๐๐ฅฐ if you ever wanted to ask me something about bdsm, self love or relationships in general or just get a personal advice... please write me a message ๐๐ because from now on I take one day per week to answer only messages and I would love to interact even more with you ๐๐ฅฐ
PS: you will receive not only an detailed answer also a little gift in form of a photo ๐๐
Meine liebsten
Heute habe ich eine kleine โBitteโ an euch ๐๐๐ฅฐ falls ihr mich schon immer mal was zu bdsm, Selbstliebe oder Beziehungen im allgemeinen Fragen wolltet oder auch einfach einen persรถnlichen Rat.. bitte schreibt mir eine Nachricht ๐๐ denn ab jetzt nehme ich mir einen Tag die Woche fest um nur Nachrichten zu beantworten und ich wรผrde es Lieben noch mehr mit euch zu interagieren ๐๐ฅฐ
Part 2 <3
And did you read the news on IG, Dennis will fight on Saturday so its such a crazy week.. he had to cut down his weight (5kg) and what do you think, what is better have sex before the fight or do you think its better to wait?
Today I wrote about so fears, so you want to read the text or better not?
And next week I will have a visit from a camera team and shoot a set in front of them.. first time (I think) I shoot with/for strangers. But itโs more like a little documentary, so I do a set for here and probably also a little solo video ๐๐
NEW FAVOURITE VIDEO ๐๐๐
Good evening ๐ฅฐ today was once again one of those days where pretty much everything was just perfect... I have photographed a wonderful set and at some point my beloved king came and let the whole thing end perfectly โค๏ธ๐๐
The set will come as always the next days but I can not withhold the video ๐ฅฐ๐คซ so check out your inbox in few ๐
My Body is changing in such a different way than I was expecting.. what do you think about? I'm still so surprised and also somehow curious how this journey will turn out with my body .. Also it's super interesting that my desires didn't changed that much than expected.. I thought maybe BDSM, especially the feeling in rope and getting spanked will probably lose some interest, but it's almost the opposite, my sexlife and desires get even more important. So I feel so lucky to can have open conversations and with this a real sexlife with Dennis.. because I think its a big challenge to not forget your partnership during pregnancy and probably also parenthood <3
BTW Dennis did the edit on this set, and I really like it :) I hope you too ?!?
and he likes the first one the most and told me he likes my baby bump a lot on the Photos (I took the photos in the evening and stretched it out, so the bump was a way bigger than during the day)
Good evening my dears
I hope you are all well โบ๏ธ
Since the question or rather the wish to write about how to start with bdsm best, came up more often, I took it as an incentive to do something good for myself again.
Because bringing yourself closer to this world (especially in the beginning but also like me after a longer time) is something of the most valuable on the journey in this world.
Because bdsm has a lot more to do with communication, feeling, setting limits but also expanding them and also with self-love and above all respect than you might think at first. And I also believe that this world often seems so dangerous, and unfortunately it can be, is because people enter it not knowing themselves, the limits but also the honest motives.
That's why it's so valuable to get to know yourself, without pressure and also without other people and thus dangers.
And believe me, you can try out so many things for yourself, get to know your limits and also expand them, and yet the greatest risk (psychological assault) is as good as eliminated.
Because, as I mean to know it, you often play with yourself in emotional moments but feel yourself very well and there are rarely too many substances involved that cloud your senses, which also makes it dangerous ๐๐
So my tip on how to get started with this, order whatever interests you, ropes, a pinwheel, gags, candles or whatever else excites you (it can even be a whip)
Get chick for yourselves and date yourselves. And if you prefer to try it out with someone, then take your partner you really trust or a best friend, but try it out with someone close to you and not just someone from the "scene" you don't know. Because there are a lot of people with their own motives and little interest in slowly and carefully building up a common communication. But that is the most important and most beautiful thing about it and must also be learned with oneself ๐๐โค๏ธ
Thatโs the kind of shibari I love and made me fall in love with the whole topic โค๏ธ Itโs simple but very effective
I have more photos and a video of it, so if you tip me $10 here I will send it to you
and donโt forget to check out my amazing and lovely rigger www.tamanduakinbaku.com