BAD Begging!: The aim of begging is to create a sense of an..
Added 2023-08-30 22:02:02 +0000 UTCBAD Begging!: The aim of begging is to create a sense of anticipation and longing. Subs need to be trained to please and serve Me, the following examples of bad begging will not go unnoticed: Example: "Please, please, give me what I want! I deserve it more than anyone else." Why it may be problematic: This example comes across as self-absorbed and entitled. It focuses more on the person's own desires and demands rather than creating an intimate connection or embracing vulnerability. Example: "I can't believe you're making me beg for this. Couldn't you just give it to me without all this fuss?" Why it may be problematic: This example displays a whiny and demanding tone, which can detract from the potential eroticism. It takes away from the consensual power dynamics and may come across as bratty rather than submissive. Example: "I need you to do this for me. If you don't, I won't be able to enjoy anything anymore." Why it may be problematic: This example highlights an overly needy tone that can shift focus away from the erotic aspect. It may introduce an element of emotional manipulation and can be perceived as coercive rather than consensual. Instead of saying, "Please, please give it to me," you could try, "I ache for you. I'll do anything for you to want me." Instead of whining, "Why won't you give me what I want?" you could say, "I crave your touch, yearning for your pleasure to consume me." Instead of sounding self-absorbed, saying, "I deserve this. Give it to me," you could express, "I'm yours to command, ready to surrender to your every desire."
