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𝐒𝐮𝐛𝐦𝐢𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐚𝐬 𝐚 𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐤 𝐯𝐬 𝐬𝐮𝐛𝐦𝐢𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐚𝐬 𝐚 𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐚𝐥 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐞 I s..

Added 2024-11-19 07:00:03 +0000 UTC

𝐒𝐮𝐛𝐦𝐢𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐚𝐬 𝐚 𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐤 𝐯𝐬 𝐬𝐮𝐛𝐦𝐢𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐚𝐬 𝐚 𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐚𝐥 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐞

I see lots of people lost in the term submission. It’s because we can perceive submission differently: 1) submission as a kink and 2) submission as a natural response. And these two types can even mingle, but don’t have to. ☝️
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Submission as a natural response is connected to selfless serving - provide, protect, please. It is far behind a kink, it’s more about general behaviour than sexual behaviour, about higher values as it’s man’s devotion to a woman and potentially a family, but also a general respect and appreciation for women. 💫✨
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On the other hand submission as a kink, is mostly about sexual behaviour and fulfilling YOUR needs and desires. It’s conntected with BDSM and other kinks based on power exchange dynamics.
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I believe that submission as a natural response should be rather called just a mission, devotion. Yes, a man in this case SUBmits to a woman, but he also might be perceived dominant by the rest of the world. There might even be different dynamics in the bedroom, where the woman can be submissive (or the segs doesn’t have to be kinky at all), but it doesn’t change the fact, that she’s treated as the only queen by her man.
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That means, that men can be kinky submissive, but not treat women as the queens (put themselves first, disrespect women’s needs and wants, their boundaries, undervalue them, basically misogyny behaviour...) outside of their sexual imaginations, as well as men can treat women with respect and value them as divine creatures, without being submissive sexually.
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So which of these are you or are you both? 🤓