My audience is 97% men. As an expert in radical self-expression and sexual freedom I am frequenty asked the following: - How to impress a girl? - How to win the affection of a girl? - How to forget her? - How to become sexually attractive? - What character traits do I as a woman appreciate in men? It makes loads of questions, all of them interesting. And I do have my opinion on them. I'll be glad to share if it helps you. The first thing I'd like to say is when we start new relationships, it is not relationships with a man or a woman, it is, above all, relationships with a person. And if we are mature enough we choose our partner not by their qualities and merits but by their personality. What matters the most is how comfortable you feel together and if you can be your true self with this person. Most of us just can't wrap their heads around the idea that love is not something to earn or be worth. It's hard to believe we are all worth loving. But I want you to believe me and remember about it when starting your new relations. This is the first and the most important rule. You don't have to impress people and pretend being someone you are not. Stop feeding your ego. You fascinate people when you are sincere and embrace your original self. And these people are YOUR people, your target audience (pardon my cynicism). If you want your partner to share your interests, you should know for sure what your interests are. You should have a meaningful life and life goals. If you want your partner to be caring, you should be able to care about yourself first of all. Relationships are always a mirror. If your ass is dirty, your teeth stink and you are all messed up, people around you are likely to appear the same. I also believe that relationships imply constant exchange. You always have to give something first if you want to get something back. If you are overwhelmed don't expect your relations to be any good. So always and ever think about yourself first and there will be no need to s